Basics

So tell me what turns you on?  And no I don't expect itemized lists or for you to proclaim yourselves... but lets talk...

how well do you know yourself?  What do you find sexy in others... what is it that makes you ache.... makes you hard as a rock or so wet you need a new pair of panties (assuming you wear them)...

While sex is so out there and in our faces, so much of it is still hidden and considered taboo.... I mean we accept ..hell we revere girl on girl action but mainstream society abhors guy on guy...why?  Stereotypes and societal conditioning is my opinion... I personally find both types of same sex  encounters to be intriguing and sensual.  But then I'm more of a non-conformist type than social sheep.

Sex should be fun, you should be exploring and learning about yourself with each encounter.... you know I think 1 of the biggest mistakes committed couples make is allowing sex to become a routine.... it's like ya the wife loves it when I bite her tits but hates it anywhere else....so instead of exploring if licking...sucking or nibbling excites her, he sticks with tried and true....that's not necessarily wrong (she says with an eye roll) but if you do the same ole same in bed, that's when it starts to cost you because your partner is going to notice the water stain on the ceiling or how the wall colour washes out the carpet...I'm being facetious but the point I am trying to make is you may as well be a dildo for her if all you do is the same saturday night special...


So come on read... do some research....talk with each other..... share a fantasy or 2.... play ... laugh and explore your own body and theirs... sex with someone should make you breathless and tingling with anticipation, not trying to figure out if you'll be finished in time to switch laundry loads.